Our
world changed on June 2, 2015, at 9:28 p.m. when Charlotte Grace
Keilty was born six weeks early in Weiden, Germany. Within
a couple hours of Charlotte’s arrival, the doctors informed us that they
believed Charlotte had Down Syndrome.
Although
the official test took a week, she exhibited all of the physical traits,
including a space between her big and second toe, a palmar crease on her hand,
flattened facial profile and nose, and almond-shaped eyes.
Regardless
of her diagnosis, we loved her more than anything and were excited to start our
life as a family of three.
Despite
what doctors warned us, Charlotte’s first few years were typical and very
similar to her peers (other than the numerous therapies throughout the week). Until
July 7, 2017, when Charlotte was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes.
We
were on vacation in Georgia staying with Charlotte’s grandparents when she
started to pee through diapers, drink a ton of water and seemed really sweaty
and tired. Looking back, we now know she was exhibiting symptoms of diabetes at least a month prior to this!
After
one visit to the pediatrician on a Friday afternoon where her blood sugar read
HHH (High High High) on the meter, we were told to get in the car and head to
the children’s hospital immediately, still in bathing suits and cover-ups from
the beach.
Regardless of her diagnosis, we loved her more than anything and were excited to start our life as a family of three.
Within
a few hours of arriving at the emergency room, we had a Type 1 diabetes diagnosis, learned what an A1C of 6.2
meant (fortunately, we caught it early), and had a slumber party in the
hospital for the weekend. Not to mention — Charlotte’s sister Pippa was four
months old at the time of our diagnosis and along for this crazy ride!
Let’s
just say that raising a child with Type 1 is not anywhere near “typical.” When
Charlotte was diagnosed with Down Syndrome, we thought that would be our
biggest challenge as parents. However, Down Syndrome is a walk in the park
compared to what comes with a Type 1 diabetes diagnosis.
While
our life doesn’t revolve around diabetes, diabetes definitely plays a huge role
24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.
Because
Charlotte was diagnosed at the age of 2 and is now only 4 years old, she has
never been able to manage T1D on her own. As parents, it is our job to keep our
kids alive, but that has a whole new meaning when your child has Type 1. If her
blood sugar is too low, she can die. If her blood sugar is too high, she can
die. We have to be on top of it all the time and can’t take a break from Type
1. In a way, as much as we hate to admit it, it rules our life.
However,
with the latest and greatest technology, Type 1 diabetes is more manageable. One
month after diagnosis, Charlotte started wearing a Continuous Glucose Monitor
(CGM) which gives us real time blood sugar values via Bluetooth. This
technology in itself is a LIFESAVER and allows us to know her blood sugar even
while she is at school. A year after diagnosis, Charlotte got her first insulin
pump and we have never looked back.
It is so inspiring to watch Charlotte overcome every obstacle in her path, even at only 4 years old.
Although
Charlotte is only 4 and can’t manage her own diabetes (yet), she loves to help
clean her finger with the alcohol swab and hold her meter up to the blood drop.
She will even bring us her CGM receiver when she’s hungry to show us her blood
sugar!
While
we hope that Charlotte will be able to fully manage her own diabetes when she
is older, we are confident that with the help of amazing doctors and continually
advancing technology, Charlotte will do anything she sets her mind to. We are
so thankful for the supportive staff at Baylor Scott
& White McLane Children’s Medical Center who are by our side every step of this journey.
For
those of you with Type 1 diabetes or loved ones of people with T1D, always
remember:
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Not every day will be the same or perfect — and that is okay.
Find a good doctor. Having a doctor who has Type 1 diabetes was a game changer for us. Bottom line, find an endocrinologist you trust to help you walk through life with diabetes and all its hurdles.
Get involved! Join a local organization that supports diabetes research or find people in your community with Type 1 diabetes.We have been fortunate to meet lots of T1Ds in Austin and it has been the best thing to happen to our family.
We
love our Charlotte and are grateful for every day we get to spend with her.
Parenting a child with multiple health conditions is many things — challenging,
frustrating and exhausting, to name a few. But it is also so inspiring to watch
Charlotte overcome every obstacle in her path, even at only 4 years old. We
look forward to watching her grow and continue to amaze us all!
This story was written by Charlotte’s mother, Brittany Keilty.
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